Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Men Vs Women (Part I)

Due to the wiring and construction of the mind of men and women they are totally different. Nobody is wrong and nobody is right at there places. They are just totally different........ Here are some of the points:

  • Men dominate TV remote control and flick through the channels, women don't mind watching the commercials.
  • Under Pressure men drink alcohol, smoke but women go for choclate and shopping.
  • Women criticise men for being insensitive, uncaring, not listening, not being committed to relationship, wanting to have sex rather than to make love, turning the temperature down etc,. Men criticise women about their driving, for not being able to read street directories , for turning maps upside down, for their lack of a sense of direction, for talking too much without getting to the point, for not initiating sex often enough, turning the temperature up, and for leaving the toilet seat down.
  • Men can never find a pair of socks but thier CDs are in alphabetical order,. Women can always find the missing set of car keys but rarely the most direct route to their destination.
  • If a women is out driving and gets lost, she'll stop and ask for direction. To a man, this is a sign of weakness. He'll drive round in circles for hours, muttering things like, "I've found a new way to get there" or "I am in the general area" like these.
  • Women have two X-chromosome, that's why they can describe colours in great details. A man will use basic colour description like red, blue and green but women will talk of bone, aqua, teal and apple greeen etc.
  • Women have a wider peripheral vision than men. Men have a good tunnel vision. This is because in ancient years, men were hunters and women were nest defenders.
  • Men have difficulty lying a woman face to face. But, as most women know lying to a man face to face is comparatively easy. Most men, if they are going to lie a woman, would be far better off doing it over the phone, in a mail or with all the lights off, and a blanket over their heads.
  • Women hear better than men. A woman's brain is programmed to hear a baby cry in the night, where as a father may be oblivious to it and keep on sleeping.
  • Men and women's brain have evolved with different strengths, talents and abilities. Men's brain is designed in such a way that they are having a long distance navigation, skills for hitting a target and they lack in coversations and sensitive to anyone's emotional needs and interpersonal skills. Women's brain is designed in such a way that they are good for short range navigation, wider peripheral vision to monitor their surroundings, the ability to perform several activities simultaneously, and effective communication skills.
  • Men's brain is configured in such a way that they can concentrate on one thing at a time. Women's brain is configured for multi-tasking performance.
  • Men do not want to talk much or show their emotions much. If a girl and a boy attends the same party and after that party we ask to the girl, "how was the party dear"? She will give an articulate recitation of everything wat happened -who said what to whom, how everyone felt about it and what she and they were wearing. But at the same time, we ask the same question to a boy then he will reply that, "Uhhh......! good".
  • Male brains are highly compartmentalised, and have the ability to separate and store information. At the end of a day full of problems, a man's mono-tracking brain can put them on hold. The female brain does not store information in this way-the problems just keep going around and around in her head. The only way a woman gets rid of her problems from her mind is by talking about them to acknowledge them. Therefore, when a woman talks at the end of a day, her objective is to discharge the problems, not to find conclusions or solutions.
  • For a woman, "To Talk" is to build and strengthen relationships. But for a man, "To Talk" is to relate facts. Here "To Talk" means, talking face to face or in telephone.
  • Men need to understand that when a woman talks, she is not expecting him to respong with solutions. Women, need to understand that when a man doesn't talk, that is not a clue that something is wrong or she is being unloved.
  • To argue sucessfully, a women uses the words that she doesn't really mean.
  • Women are more emotional than man due to the structure of their brain. A women can become emotional while discussing an emotional issue, while a man is less likely to do the same, or he will simply refuse to discuss the issue.
  • A woman will be very happy when she will be "adviced" by a man but man hate "advices". He thinks , that he himself can find the better way.
  • Woman don't want solutions, they just want to talk about things and for someone to listen it.
Note: These facts are srictly for pure masculine and faminine brain. There may be chances that some of the masculine brain have a little percentage of faminity and some of the faminine brain have a little percentage of masculinty. Then there may be little variations on the facts..

(More to follow in next parts of the "Men Vs Women").


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